‘Thank You’ Can Be a Loaded Phrase
In some cultures, thanking close friends or family can cause offense.
‘Thank You’ Can Be a Loaded PhraseJoey Guidone
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In your current job at LexCorp, you make $105,000—relatively low for your role and industry. You feel underappreciated and have started to look for other opportunities. After weeks of interviews, Wayne Enterprises has made an offer. All that’s left is to negotiate your salary.
You’ve done your research and have concluded that Wayne pays people of your experience and skills a wide range—between $115,000 and $160,000. Wayne is a better company than Lex, and anything in this range is more than you make now. You’d take any offer, but you obviously prefer to get the highest salary you can.
You set up a call with the HR director and make the requisite small talk for a few minutes. Then you bring up salary without saying anything specific. The HR director replies: “So, how much are you making at Lex now?” How do you respond?
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